Carey Bailey

Summer of Joy

Joy. In Trials?

All I could think was: What person is their right mind would rejoice in suffering, much less their own suffering? "We rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope" (Romans 5:3-4). Still, it seemed like such a great thought to me...that there was someone, out there, who was benefitting from their difficulties. It just wasn't me. I hadn't actually seen it happen either, not in person. My church didn't have  ...

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Life Coaching, Summer of Joy

How to Reclaim Your Want To-Do's.

We all have our to-do list but let’s call it what it really is. Our to-do list is really our: need to’s, have to’s, and must do’s. Do you ever wonder where our want to’s go??? I mentioned last week that when I shifted into the world of work-at-home mom, time was not what I had imagined. There were not any more hours in the day, though I had totally dreamed there would be. What is up with that??? In my first few months I busily went through my to-do’s, checking off boxes which should be  ...

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Crafts/Printables, Summer of Joy

Whistle While You Work.

One surefire way to know whether or not you are on the wrong track is to watch your children. When my daughter began praying each morning at breakfast, "Dear Lord, please help us to finish school early, so we can have some fun today" (OUCH!)...I knew I was doing something wrong. At first blush, I could have decided I was a terrible homeschool teacher. I have a tendency to doubt myself in most things, but surprisingly, I didn't go there. Because, while I am no "Teacher of the Year", my  ...

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Summer of Joy

STOP Drowning in Your Day!

Monday Britta shared her story on living life with a Joy sucking schedule and I am so thankful. The facts is that  she is not alone in this battle. I often hear in a first session with clients: I reach the end of my day and don’t feel like I have done enough. or…. My day feels so overwhelming that I don’t even know where to start so I just give up. or… I spend my days doing laundry and to-do’s and never get any quality time with my family. or… I work all day so I have to no idea where I am  ...

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Abiding in Our Schedules

For many years I've walked a tightrope between being a slave to, or being run over by, my schedule. I've been relentless in my pursuit of check marks OR I've been a little duckling crossing I-10...and here comes that 18-wheeler! It all comes from this: This year I have committed to learning to live and work in a healthier balance. The upside is that, since I struggled for so long with this problem, I have had plenty of time to think and learn about it! So here are some helps I have  ...

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